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I Am Having Family Problems

Why do I feel like my mother doesn't love me?
My mother cried when my Big Brother left home but when I left hoem she doesn't even care.
My mother keep my brother's clothes while my clothes are nowhere to be seen around the house.

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firefall · 61-69, M

Almost no parents love all their children equally. If your brother is more important to her, that doesn't mean she doesn't love you, just that you're not first.

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Leafkiss · 26-30, F

@firefall Thank you.

updown2020 · 61-69, M

@Leafkiss Well I have read the messages between you and firefall did you ever think that maybe your brother needs the extra love and support and she see you as the strong one. Sometimes what we feel and see is the total opposite. If you cannot talk to your mom well send her a nice letter maybe she does not know what she is doing is wrong and affecting you.

Leafkiss · 26-30, F

@updown2020 Maybe you're right. Well, I think I just have to talk to my mother then. Hope this works.

Calmsoul · 31-35, M

I think it would be wrong to assume things ..its always better to talk things out to avoid misscommunications

Leafkiss · 26-30, F

@Calmsoul I guess so but sometimes I just can't stop myself from thinking about it.

Calmsoul · 31-35, M

@Leafkiss its natural .. thoughts come & go don't take them personally & no need to feel guilty about it

Leafkiss · 26-30, F

@Calmsoul I guess so. Thank you I just needed to let it all out.

Ajz5985 · 36-40, M

I feel the same way about my grandmother

updown2020 · 61-69, M

And maybe your brother left is clothes behind by accident as for you well you needed all your clothes so took all of them.

Leafkiss · 26-30, F

@updown2020 Well, I did tell my mom that she needs to keep my clothes so that when I comeback, I have something to wear.

updown2020 · 61-69, M

@Leafkiss Oh well have you check your room maybe they are in there? I guess you are off at college?

Leafkiss · 26-30, F

@updown2020 It was not there. Not a single one.

Danez · M

Is your brother the oldest? It could be a first-born thing.

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