I Want To Stop Letting People Get To Me

I feel you on a deep level 😲 (except I'm an otaku andddd you can sort of get the picture lol) the fact that you put in effort to fix things is the mindset of an adult already ;) to be responsible~ but some things are not meant to be fixed, although it is a very admirable trait to be empathatic, will hurt both parties instead because sometimes others don't get that, not saying it's their fault or ur fault, but for them to understand others they have to fight it out, question the other parties point of view, an argumentative personality. When they fight they don't look to see ur point of view but to justify their point of view. and if their wrong, they admit defeat or are still stubborn to their point of view lol.


The thing is not everyone will see people the same as you, so with the wrong people, they can easily emotionally manipulate you and use you for their own beneift. some unknowingly because they assume you would be okay with it, and other more dangerous ones that knowingly try to suck you dry.

This is just my two cents lol cos I have a very empathetic Dad and I'm sort of the emotional abuser because if you keep giving, they'll just keep taking, cos they would see it as alright. and when at school I keep giving, cos I'm scared of conflict, and they'll just keep taking seeing nothing is wrong with it. all I can say is that it's either u toughen up ur spine or surround urself with people that care the same way as you do, or your gonna get hurt. or maybe just tell how you really feel, when ur angry tell them, a person with a soul would try to seek harmony with you