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I Dont Believe In Dating Just For the Sake of Dating

[c=#7700B2]feminists will hate me for this but I wish relationships were kinda like the old days.. you get married, have a faithful hard working husband who provides while the wife stays at home looking after the kids and cooking and whatever..

lol I say that but I would never allow myself to rely on someone financially like that but its a nice thought.
I love playing with kids and enjoy cooking.. It all seems so much less stressful compared to these days..

ahh the thought is nice at least[/c]

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Benny5678 · 41-45, T

Feminists shouldn't hate you for it. Feminism is about choice and if that's your choice that is your choice

Fernie · F

@JKerouac: If she chooses to give up her power/independence to a man, it is her choice and Feminists would never hate her for that but many would definitely hate the choice she made......not the woman

Benny5678 · 41-45, T

@Fernie: They might not like the choice, but it's her life and she is entitled to live it however she wants. Freedom to choose is the ethos of feminism

Fernie · F

@JKerouac: I just said that...are you mansplaining feminism to me? HA!

Benny5678 · 41-45, T

@Fernie: You said they'd have an opinion on her choice, I was saying yes, but that they should keep it to themselves

PlumBerries · 31-35, F

[c=#7700B2]feminists/feminazis hate anyone who don't follow their idiotic views on what women should be doing. I'm talking about feminists these days anyway.

I myself couldn't rely fully on someone financially. I just don't trust someone enough to do that and it would make me anxious all the time.
I have a good job and I'm financially set myself.
I like the thought of what I wrote with this story because it seemed more simple and compared to my work, seems less stressful plus I love kids and so on..

It was only a nice thought I had, would never happen[/c]

Benny5678 · 41-45, T

@PlumBerries: I would love to be a house husband 😂

But, like yourself, giving up your independence is hard

PlumBerries · 31-35, F

[c=#7700B2]staying at home spending precious time with your children, just sounds great to me.
no independence is the sucky part[/c]