I Dont Believe In Dating Just For the Sake of Dating
a few years ago i was dating for the sake of dating. i would go on these plenty of fishing sites and get dates for the sake of getting dates. some led to hook-ups. others lead to dead end relationships. so i gave up. because my last relationship ended badly. she moved in with me for about 6 months and didn't want to leave even after we broke up. and it took forever for her to get her stuff out. last month i made the conscious decision that i would not be talking to her anymore. and i do not regret it.
but i got bored. and went back on that fishy dating web site. just to see. and i found a girl who was real. not a catfish. not a gold digger. real. she has her act together. she's comfortable in her own skin. and she actually did the reaching out. last sunday we went to coffee. (btw, i'm catholic. looking for another catholic. a catholic free to marry in the catholic church.) she's divorced, so i thought that i would be stepping into another dead end relationship. so i asked her if her marriage was a sacramental marriage (a marriage in the catholic church) and she told me she got married in las vegas. i was ecstatic inside hearing this. because this kind of marriage can easily be annulled by the church. so we will be free to marry in the catholic church. this is huge for me. huge.
we met for coffee at 8pm. starbucks closed at 9pm. so we sat out on the patio. talking. she looked at her phone and it was past midnight. we were talking for over 4 hours. and i felt like i had so much more to talk about.
we been communicating back and forth through text message and one phone conversation.
i normally don't buy into astrology. but she's a virgo. i'm a pisces. i looked up if these are compatible and i found out...
"When Virgo and Pisces join together in a love match, it generally makes for a healthy relationship. The two Signs are opposite one another within the Zodiac, and such Signs tend to be well balanced, one making up for qualities the other lacks."
and...
"Pisces and Virgo Compatibility: The Dreamer and the Healer. When these two gentle, unassuming signs fall in love, the result can be truly magical. As opposite signs in the zodiac, Pisces and Virgo compatibility is based on each partner offering the other something they need and something which they lack."
that sounds promising. I'm looking forward to what's gonna happen with this.
but i got bored. and went back on that fishy dating web site. just to see. and i found a girl who was real. not a catfish. not a gold digger. real. she has her act together. she's comfortable in her own skin. and she actually did the reaching out. last sunday we went to coffee. (btw, i'm catholic. looking for another catholic. a catholic free to marry in the catholic church.) she's divorced, so i thought that i would be stepping into another dead end relationship. so i asked her if her marriage was a sacramental marriage (a marriage in the catholic church) and she told me she got married in las vegas. i was ecstatic inside hearing this. because this kind of marriage can easily be annulled by the church. so we will be free to marry in the catholic church. this is huge for me. huge.
we met for coffee at 8pm. starbucks closed at 9pm. so we sat out on the patio. talking. she looked at her phone and it was past midnight. we were talking for over 4 hours. and i felt like i had so much more to talk about.
we been communicating back and forth through text message and one phone conversation.
i normally don't buy into astrology. but she's a virgo. i'm a pisces. i looked up if these are compatible and i found out...
"When Virgo and Pisces join together in a love match, it generally makes for a healthy relationship. The two Signs are opposite one another within the Zodiac, and such Signs tend to be well balanced, one making up for qualities the other lacks."
and...
"Pisces and Virgo Compatibility: The Dreamer and the Healer. When these two gentle, unassuming signs fall in love, the result can be truly magical. As opposite signs in the zodiac, Pisces and Virgo compatibility is based on each partner offering the other something they need and something which they lack."
that sounds promising. I'm looking forward to what's gonna happen with this.
51-55, M
