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I just don’t understand

My father no matter what size i was in (small at one point) said how i needed to look and cat more like my siblings...... my siblings weren’t golden children one was incarcerated and the other pregnant young. I got my degree and started working my ass off they got handed houses and cars.... their kids get seen all year mine get seen for a weekend. I’m the lesser sibling... they both have no desire to spend time with me or let our kids play either......... i dont want to shut them out but honesty it gets old.

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nonsensiclesnail · F

That would get old fast. but maybe the golden children became the ones who needed him more. Maybe thats why they were golden. He knew you would be ok.

Rosiechick13 · 26-30, F

@nonsensiclesnail sadly i dont think thats it they are both well off now..... I’m the bad kid..... the christian, with her dream job, in her favorite state, making my life.... he belittles me constantly. My jobs not good enough , my husband isn’t good enough.... my house isn’t good enough...

nonsensiclesnail · F

@Rosiechick13 I hope you know hes wrong.

Rosiechick13 · 26-30, F

@nonsensiclesnailthank you . I try to remember that but that feeling does creep occasionally

nonsensiclesnail · F

@Rosiechick13 It is hard when a parent looks down on you continuously. For some reason we want their acceptance, even love. But unfortunately they can be jerks who have no care for what their actions do to us. As long as you know, that helps. But, I'm still sorry.

Rosiechick13 · 26-30, F

I appreciate it just needed to vent
@nonsensiclesnail