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How did your current/last relationship change you?

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I think online love isn't possible; you really don't know if you love someone until you spend time with them in real life.
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@SW-User goes differently for everyone but I see your point.
@SW-User well said , spot on 👍🏻
poisonouscupcake · 22-25, F
it taught me that when someone tells you who they are believe them, and that if someone really cared about you they wouldn’t do everything in their power to hurt and abuse you

i feel stronger than ever now that i’m not with them and if anyone tries to hurt me like that again i’m leaving
AllelujahHaptism · 36-40, M
@poisonouscupcake are you the white one? :3
poisonouscupcake · 22-25, F
@AllelujahHaptism YESSSSSS😺
AllelujahHaptism · 36-40, M
@poisonouscupcake then, i agree :3 anytime you need :)
ginnyfromtheblock · 26-30, F
i think i might actually be worthy of love
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@ginnyfromtheblock sweet. Happy for you!
Made me realize I am worthy of way more than I had previously been led to believe.
SW-User
I nearly turned everything good about me bad.
@SW-User I'm wiser ...a tiny bit dead in one corner of my heart .

But mostly ....my perspective is ...a little more Zen?

Thankyou for asking...thats kind 😊
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@BoobooSnafu hope things get better for you.

No worries. Cheers.
@SW-User they will.
Thanks 😊
Tnebigbadwolf · 36-40, M
It taught me a valuable lesson, if they're dressing provocatively in public when they already have your attention, it's not your attention that they're grabbing.
LucyFuhr · 56-60, F
*sigh*
I've started hating people [b][i]before[/i][/b] I meet them; it makes the whole process so much easier

😅
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@LucyFuhr you are onto something
LucyFuhr · 56-60, F
@SW-User Saves me time [b][i]and[/i][/b] disappointment 😃
SW-User
That I'm capable of things I'd never thought I'd do

A stark reminder that anyone is capable of anything good and bad
TurtlePink · 22-25, F
Ugh. That was such a mess. We didn't even know what we were doing, we didn't even know what we wanted. I'm not even sure if we actually loved each other I think it was all lust. Because if he did love me he would have listened to me. And so the important lesson that I learned was to not settle for anybody out of desperation.
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@TurtlePink that's very common at young age. Genitals do the thinking xD.
Love takes so much more, yeah.
Hope you have your man well and good.
Trippy · F
Taught me I'm still a survivor.
assemblingaknob · 26-30, F
It wasn't officially a relationship, but it made me more ambitious about my goals. Just a few months after my breakdown I reached my first milestone to success. And I don't want to stop.
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@assemblingaknob that's a motivation. Keep it up!
assemblingaknob · 26-30, F
@SW-User a blessing in disguise indeed.
lovelychicadee · 41-45, F
Made me realize how much I need to be with a strong communicator. He would not talk about anything. Funny thing though he was a therapist!
SkeetSkeet · 100+, F
@lovelychicadee Hahahah thats funny. Therapists are usually the ones with the most issues.
SW-User
@lovelychicadee I don't trust therapists. You pay them for doing stuff to yourself by yourself xD.
Still though, the feelings might have played their part. Just like in a surgeon's case: they can be so efficient in their work yet it is highly unlikely that they'll be able to work as efficiently on their loved ones as compared to others.
riseofthemachine · 41-45, M
It kind made me feel like a failure being honest .
Every woman I met cheated on and that's not feel sorry for myself cause I'm over it now .
I never went into a relationship since 10 years ago and being honest I'm a lot more secure in myself .
Relationships will make you very insecure at times especially when your with them cause at night the mind gets very active and brings in all insecure thoughts and eventually then you'd explode on them at some stage in the relationship.
That's my experience. I'm a damaged good 😂😂😂
SW-User
@riseofthemachine not a very great experience, man. I feel for you. I really hope you get what best suits you.
riseofthemachine · 41-45, M
@SW-User I left one go and being honest I miss her so much . I had a great chance , but now I have fierce trust issues with woman .
SW-User
@riseofthemachine have you tried working on them?
I don't know man, you can meet 100 different people, get yourself tired as fuck and then meet the 101st and they prove to be the perfect person for you, still leaving million other choices. I'd say not every person is the same, gotta give others chances but see your own happiness first and more importantly, if you care to date others.

Let it go man, be happy as you want to be. Go date or stay single. Who knows what might be around the corner?

Good luck to you!
SkeetSkeet · 100+, F
I'm never having sex again until I'm married
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@SkeetSkeet gotcha. I feel the same way. Never got married though lol.
SW-User
taught me never to leave myself vulnerable or depend on one person if I'm going to depend on anyone. I became more confident and learned my worth.
SW-User
@SW-User I feel ya. It's sad though. Relationships are meant to let yourself go and become vulnerable to your partner but can't help it if the partner is shit.
Best wishes.
It helped me become ME
SW-User
@SW-User I was honest, she flaked out, so whateves
SW-User
@checkoutanytime my ex did the same with me. Constant walk on eggshells it was.
DeluxedEdition · 26-30, F
It literally traumatized me on the basis it was very abusive in every way possible
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It made me realise my worth and I learnt that self respect is more important than love.
KuroNeko · 41-45, F
It made me far more concerned about personal boundaries.
NCCindy · 36-40, F
It causes me smile a whole lot.
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