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Have you ever known a survivor...borderline scavenger

The type of person who has lived a desperate life so she drops hints at or about everything because she’s hoping you will just give it to her? It must work because she does it all the time. I’m okay with it but I think to myself, so people desperate for her friendship just give away their stuff for people who are bold enough to drop hints? Is this a cultural thing? A woman thing?

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stound

Ive known a scammer or two like that

Mindful · 56-60, F

Is that what it is, a scammer? This person has always had a full time job....but talks a lot. @stound

stound

@Mindful the ones i met were.. are.. im not sure who you mean

Mindful · 56-60, F

Well I’ve befriended this person. She’s decent. But she has that... “what can I get out of this” yet desperation for someone to care for her... friend somewhat controlling... her way of the highway ....she goes between ruling the world and being crushed. Emotional. I just want to know if there is a decent level of that in a person. @stound

stound

@Mindful in my experience, if theyre a scammer, first you'll get much assurance that their money needs are covered. Especially if you dont ask.

Mindful · 56-60, F

@stound first you’ll get that their money needs are covered? So that they don’t look like a scammer?