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I Believe In Acceptance

I don't know why people do this to each other. They judge other the most trival things, appearance, weight, skin colour, material possessions, wealth... All these very surface things and I see it saddens and pressures people and makes them feel unworthy and makes this life just feel horrible. it's saddening and tiring living in a world like this

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canusernamebemyusername · M

Yeah. These are some of the things I worry about so much. It does make me self conscious and I can do little about much of it. But it means many people wont accept me either. But then I try to think do I really want that kind of person in my life. But then my brain is like, "But Im lonely." And then I'm like, "Not that lonely>:(" You have actually helped me in that regard:)

JammieDodgerHeart · 26-30, F

@canusernamebemyusername I'm glad I have helped you. Sadly I think the world focuses too much on these things and people learn it off each other and don't have the ability to see above surface things. Not every one is like that though and those are the ones to keep around :) but I think our society and media just perpetuates these harmful messages and it is saddening

canusernamebemyusername · M

@JammieDodgerHeart Yeah. I def get it from other people. Because if it was left to me I would be okay. Maybe still have low self esteem but okay in general. With people I tend to think too much about how they are seeing me. And that isn't healthy. As a doctor I heard once said, most people are too absorbed in their own lives to pay me any attention. And that helped.

JammieDodgerHeart · 26-30, F

@canusernamebemyusername This is what I mean though, there's nothing wrong with you :( but people are taught go judge or idealize a certain look or way of being. That's some thing I hope will change :(

canusernamebemyusername · M

@JammieDodgerHeart Well you don't judge me at all. And that is all I need is just for one person not to judge me:3 You make me feel safe and perfect as I am:3