When you really love someone, you just want to love them and spend time with them even when you know they don't feel the same way like you do..

@travelguy01 I just confessed to my fwb that I started to catch feeling. But he doesn't feel the same and he said thanks for loving him but don't expect anything from him. And still we'll spend the night together this weekend. :(

@Karenina Be careful, he might just be using you for sex. Might be best to break it off if he can’t commit to actually being with you in more than just a sexual way, and that’s what you’re really looking for.

@travelguy01 I'm using him too, I mean I need the sex too and I can't do casual sex with someone that I don't have a feeling for.

There's this another guy that jokingly said that he wanted me to be his gf but he deleted the message and i pretend I didn't see the msg.

So idk, i might want to start relationship with this other guy because I know he's not all about sex and I can still have sex with my fwb.

Does that sound cruel?

@Karenina You need to look at more than just sex in my opinion. That won’t carry you very far by itself.

@travelguy01 idk what to do, I'm hyper and very affectionate. I need that kind of affection.

@Karenina I’m hyper and affectionate too, but there’s a difference between sex and affection, especially if you really care about the other person and they really care about you.