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I Wonder If He Misses Me Like I Miss Him

Cliche title but seriously
It's reaching to the point that I don't think he even cares about me anymore. He constantly wants to break up with me now, pointing out things I've done wrong. Not blaming him but it's making me feel like im just worthless and useless. I'm not what he wants and I am not good enough. I want to continue pursuing him but it's making me feel ashamed and embarrassed. What if he finds me laughable and stupid? Begging him would get even worse. I'm so worried. i know I'm overthinking but this time he's completely cut me off.
I actually planned a trip to where he is this summer as we are a long-distance relationship. Looking at my schedule now, I barely want to go anymore, even though I have other commitments. I planned a lot for him, wanted to give him some surprises and some lovely moments. What should I do with that when he doesn't even want me?

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XReaganX · 26-30, F

You can PM me as I've been in a similar situation before. Same thoughts and feelings, so I know how hard it is to sort that out.

If not, that's okay. I understand. Let me just leave you here with a little bit of wisdom: Love and respect yourself enough to let him go. He has an equal right to back out of this, but it's a bit excessive for him to make you feel bad to the point you question your own worth. You are beautiful enough, good enough, smart enough, you are enough. 💜

Colourflame · 22-25, F

@XReaganX i always had self esteem issues. So definitely nott just him.

XReaganX · 26-30, F

@Colourflame Of course, it's not entirely his doing but he's not making it any better for you. You deserve better. Seriously, you deserve to be seen, heard, understood and completely loved. Don't settle for his apathy.

Wishingwellguy · 46-50, M

I’m sure he does , just sometimes I’m sure he just misunderstood , how you feel and care for him , hope you can forgive him , and all is ok now

IBHappy · F

Get rid of him. Do you really like how he is treating you. If it's not what you want, he isnt worth the time and energy you are investing. Hes toying with your emotions. Let him go and find a relationship where you are valued and there is mutual respect. If you show him you will accept less and less, you are only devaluing yourself. Your actions send a message that its ok to treat you like shit. Take back your power.

lasergraph · 70-79, M

Every relationship requires two participants. It doesn't sound like he has the same investment as you do. You can't force it to work and you can't take the blame if it doesn't. Hw is putting all of the blame on you. I think it is time to find someone who values you.

RubySoo · 56-60, F

Hes gaslighting you hunni.
End things before he drags you further down.

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RubySoo · 56-60, F

@Colourflame .. but hes making you feel everything is your fault. And thats not right.
Ive been there.....he will crush yr self esteme....do t let him

Colourflame · 22-25, F

@RubySoo I will think about what you are saying. Thanks for the comment.

RubySoo · 56-60, F

@Colourflame take care. I wish you well.
I hope you can raise about his words. Xx

MrGoodbar · 51-55, M

A relationship is work, but Love should never be work or cause you this much pain. it sounds like it is time to move on

SW-User

Have you told him how you feel?

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