I Give Relationship Advice But Am Terrible At Relationships

So, when I addressed it, via text, I get a short answer. "Been Busy". Oh, I said, so too busy to say good night(consistently) and too busy to say good morning(also consistently). Right. I'm not an idiot, but you enjoy your day. Hours later, I get another reply of what she's really doing, which is fine, but it's still an excuse because its so out of her nature, thus, she never denied that she was mad, if she wasn't then her response wouldn't have began with "Look" lol. But ya know, whatever. I'm beginning to see a pattern & I don't like those kinds of patterns. I don't like the fact that she denies her own feelings either. All avoidance...so how does one work out what could be potential problems if the other party skirts them & pretends they're not there? I know what her normal behavior is. Nor have I heard a word from her since early this afternoon & that's also out of character. But ok, ya not mad. And I'm an idiot. This is what some other people would say, why can't people just be real? Damn, if you did something to piss me off, I'm sure gonna let you know about it, UNLESS of course I know I was wrong, then I'm just gonna be quiet. I also have no problem admitting when I'm wrong or out of line. Just don't expect me to be a mind reader if ya not gonna tell me what ya thinking or feeling & walk around pretending. Get me?