I Give Relationship Advice But Am Terrible At Relationships
What is ya'lls take on being given the "Silent Treatment"? How do ya'll deal with that or handle that? What do you think about it?
56-60, F
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AllAboutLaffs · 70-79, M
Wolfdancer · 56-60, F
@AllAboutLaffs Yeah, I'm not big on that kind of stuff myself & it does push my buttons also. To me it's a form of an emotional power play & I don't play that kind of shit. Say what's on your mind, say how you feel & be done with it. This way there's no guessing games, nor misunderstandings. This has been a continuous red flag for me in our 3 yr friendship/relationship. Trust me, I'm keeping notes.
AllAboutLaffs · 70-79, M
@Wolfdancer Three years is a long time to tolerate that behavior ... good luck with it ....
Wolfdancer · 56-60, F
LOL yeah I just have this feeling she's looking for an "out". Girl you don't need an out. Ya wanna go. GO! Ya always been Free! Don't let me hold ya back! But don't play this shit with me neither, because I'll tell ya to Go and I think that's her aim, so it's not deemed "her fault". The Power Play. I'm coming into focus.