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What do you do when you have a social friend but your antisocial?

DaughterOfGone · 31-35, F
tell them you just want to hang with them and not a group, and tell them why
AnnRose · 26-30, F
@DaughterGone: I am working on it. I used to never leave my room but now i go out with my friend when she can. I need to make more friends though because I cant just sit around and wait until she wants to go out XD Im hoping i can meet some really cool people soon. That will be understanding of me being nervous.
DaughterOfGone · 31-35, F
That's great you've already made some progress and will keep trying, i was like that when I was your age but I'm much better these days so there's definetly hope for you ! You ever want to talk you can PM me, I'm logging off for the night now so good luck in the future :)
AnnRose · 26-30, F
@DaughterGone: Thank you sweetie and sure ill private message you sometime :) have a good night :)
Allelse · 36-40, M
My friend is the antisocial one and he hates everyone. He hates them all so that way he never get hurt.
Allelse · 36-40, M
@AnnRose: Maybe, and I'm not looking to hurt your feelings, but maybe you need to open your heart up abit. I know it's not easy and I can gaurantee you will at some point get hurt, but maybe just open it up a little but for more than just those select few people. :)
AnnRose · 26-30, F
@Allelse: No trust me you didnt and wont hurt my feelings i know what i have to do. I just dont do it like I automatically stop myself I think its because i was bullied pretty badly and singled out like I mean im an adult now but i think subconciously that shit never leaves you and your always still afraid. I have opened up and have gotten hurt so i guess now it takes a certain type of person to crack the shell. I can only learn from things.
Allelse · 36-40, M
@AnnRose: No it never does leave you, atleast until you process it and deal with with the pain which can often be a very slow and painful thing to do. I'm sorry those people hurt you :( And I wish you all the luck in life in both getting help and maybe learning trust again.
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AnnRose · 26-30, F
Lol i invite her to my house and shes like I feel like you dont like to be social well its not that i dont like it im just nervous in social situations. She is all outgoing and here I am can barely look people in the eyes XD opposites attract I guess
TheCoolestCat · 31-35, M
AnnRose · 26-30, F
I dont know anyone with weed if i did id try it im a very open person XD

 
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