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What do you do when you have a social friend but your antisocial?

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DaughterOfGone · 31-35, F
tell them you just want to hang with them and not a group, and tell them why
AnnRose · 26-30, F
I have she respects it now. I just wish I could enjoy myself with her and her friends but im just nervous.
DaughterOfGone · 31-35, F
what makes you nervous ?
AnnRose · 26-30, F
@DaughterGone: Everything People, loud noises, new places but mostly people though idk what they are thinking or there intentions are.
DaughterOfGone · 31-35, F
@AnnRose: I think I know how you feel, but sometimes you have to take a chance on someone, get to know them a bit to know their intentions, you can do that while still protecting yourself. You could meet people in quiet places too like public parks or museums, I hate loud noises too, shopping centres can be hell sometimes. Being social isn't a natural skill but you can work on it if you want too.
AnnRose · 26-30, F
@DaughterGone: I am working on it. I used to never leave my room but now i go out with my friend when she can. I need to make more friends though because I cant just sit around and wait until she wants to go out XD Im hoping i can meet some really cool people soon. That will be understanding of me being nervous.
DaughterOfGone · 31-35, F
That's great you've already made some progress and will keep trying, i was like that when I was your age but I'm much better these days so there's definetly hope for you ! You ever want to talk you can PM me, I'm logging off for the night now so good luck in the future :)
AnnRose · 26-30, F
@DaughterGone: Thank you sweetie and sure ill private message you sometime :) have a good night :)