What's the unquestionable proof that someone loves you?

I think that if someone truly loves me, then he/she would care about the people and things and animals that I care about. And that he/she would respect those most important to me and will protect what I would give my life to protect.

It's a simple determining factor. But somehow, I realized that failing it makes me question one's motive for getting close with me. Because to be honest, if I love someone, then I like to think I'd care about these things about him/her too. Or at least, that's what I hope.

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dragonfly46 · F

For me it's not the words, but with consistent action. He always put me ahead of himself. Would sacrifice all in order to give me anything I wanted. If I asked for the moon, no questions, that crazy man would try and figure out a way. When he looks at me, I see myself through his eyes and I'm beautiful. Next month we will have been married for 30 years, together since we were 15. How I was sure he loved me at that point? He let me go, it broke his heart, but he knew I needed to spread my wings and experience life without him because we got together so young. We were apart for a few years, enough time for me to build another life. We married a few years after we got back together.

Casheyane · F

@dragonfly46 :) Thanks for sharing. That's very sweet.

Dainbramadge · 56-60, M

Two qualities for a good relationship, I think, is loyalty and respect. So I would consider proof of some ones love for me is if they would lie to protect me.

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Casheyane · F

@Dainbramadge I think I understand but I'm not sure if we're talking in the same context. Because for example, someone committed a crime. Then I wouldn't say it's always love to lie for them. Is this what you have in mind or something else?

Dainbramadge · 56-60, M

@Casheyane No I think that. I guess depending on the crime. If they would be stealing stuff I don't know if I would because that would disturb my thoughts of respect. Respect for themselves and me. But, if the crime was beating some jerks ass for being a disrespectful ass and they lie to the cops saying you didn't do it. I feel that is love.

Casheyane · F

@Dainbramadge Ahh, then yes :) Reminds me if the marauders in harry potter. They all turned to animals to help their werewolf friend. It's sweet.

SW-User

Their words mean something

sandrides · 31-35, M

Love is not an easy thing. Many who come close to you doesn't love you, they're just coating or they are not fully in to you.

Casheyane · F

@sandrides I have to say I agree to that. Sad fact but true. Is it the same for you?

LucyFuhr · 56-60, F

There really is no such thing as unquestionable proof when it comes to being loved and although "common ground" is a lovely thing, you'd be cutting off your nose to spite your face if you rule people out simply because they don't think/feel the same way you do. Everyone "loves" in their own way.

I think Oscar Wilde said it best, "Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live."

JupiterDreams · 31-35

They kill for you. 😈

Casheyane · F

@JupiterDreams I'd appreciate if you mean roaches haha.

JupiterDreams · 31-35

@Casheyane 🤪🤪

YukikoAmagi

[c=#359E00]he give me baby[/c]

SW-User

No idea

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