AGGGHH HELPP 😭

So i think i got my first job. As a nurse in some clinic in the city which is like 1 hour away from my village with car. I got two shifts, morning and noon. Morning from 6-2 pm and noon from 2pm-10pm. So i have to stay at hostle for next 1 year, i feel so nervous and scaredd.. Im scared i gotta start my life alone theree, meet new people. Which is im also scared what if they make fun of me or what if i got a toxic circles etc . Im to be honest scared far from home 😭😭
Give me some advice to fight my over thinking 😭
I FEEL SO LONELY AND MISERABLE ALREADY. I ALSO GOT NO BOYFRIEND TO KEEP ME COMPANY OR FRIEND THERE
And also i have nobody to talk or communicate 😭

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GoFish ·

i hope you get good nice roomies maybe you will find a bf too why not? ☺ congrats on your new job

Bluebell1 · 26-30, F

@GoFish WHATT BF? 😭😭 men is scary tbh

GoFish ·

@Bluebell1 ok then.. probably a good fear.. they aren't all scary tho lol

SinlessOnslaught · M

I relate to this, not because I'm in your exact situation right now but because I will soon have to be in a similar situation.

I just try to remember that I never know who I will meet. There might be that rare person who is genuinely good and whom I trust. Yes it will take time to open up to them but at least it's not just a stagnant situation (given I meet this person).

At the end of the day, at least I have the capability to choose who I trust and and who I don't.

Good luck to you.

Bluebell1 · 26-30, F

@SinlessOnslaught yes, thank you 🥺 i hope u too

SinlessOnslaught · M

@Bluebell1 Thank you. You can always check back here with us. We are here for you.

Neuman

an hour by car is still within (annoyingloy long and hard, but possible) walking range. you got this.

Bluebell1 · 26-30, F

@Neuman righttt😫 ughh i feel homesick already

Neuman

@Bluebell1 it'll work out. things could go wrong, but they're actually more likely to go well or at least ok.

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