Not a real petty person , this is valid

There is a woman at work. Been friends 2 years but when my step son died she did no such ( as i would for her )

Did not donate to a donation. For step sons 7 year old ... her reason was she didnt like my step daughter. ( had zero to do with step son donations

She didnt stop to pay her respects

She didnt send a card

There is a girl here at work she is friends with , i am too and girl lost her parents.

Mutual friend ( woman who made me feel like shit ) is going to girls service for her parents and has asked me to follow me bc its in my home town , she has been in charge of asking for donations & she has sent a card.

I am trying hard not to take it personal but how can i not & trying not to let it consume my brain.

I am friends with her but i dont go extra out of my way anymore

She wont even have lunch with me at work or meet me outside for dinner. She has sooo many excuses. Infact i spent $10 on booties for her daughters baby . I didnt have to but i did and i am just now as im typing feeling like crap