I’m so sorry to hear that your mother said something so incredibly hurtful to you. No one deserves to be spoken to like that, especially by a parent. That must be very painful and confusing to hear. You deserve to be treated with love, respect, and kindness. what your mother said is not a reflection of your worth as a person but is more of a reflection of the little value and low self-worth she feels of herself. She’s mentally unwell Coral.