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I love my job very much

But it can be draining sometimes

Not the things most people would find draining. I don’t think most people could de with mental patients, much less those that have committed sometimes horrible and violent crimes

Or the endless stream of nonsense excuses they constantly use to try and get out of court order drug screens because they know they’ll pop hot

But that’s never what bothers me. What bothers me is when no one listens to us despite this literally being our specialty

Were the place people go when everyone else gives up on them

And sometimes we say a person is currently beyond help and needs to be put back in a facility or jail because they’re dangerous

It’s rare but it happens

And when it does we’re rarely listened to because

And it basically always ends in tragedy

Just like it did this last time, because we just don’t have beds or money

Well I’m sure the dead man’s family will take comfort that the rich won’t suffer any undue tax burden though as they bury their son because we couldn’t afford to save him with a hospital with one single more bed

But at least rich people can go to space, right?
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Your words capture a deeply painful reality in mental health care and criminal justice—the systemic failure to listen to the professionals who know best and the chronic underfunding of mental health services. The frustration you describe is heartbreaking: knowing what needs to be done, sounding the alarm, and being ignored—only for tragedy to unfold exactly as predicted.

It’s devastating when people in crisis don’t get the care they need not because we lack the knowledge or skills, but because of politics, bureaucracy, and misplaced priorities. The contrast between the suffering of those who need help and the obscene wealth poured into vanity projects like private space tourism is infuriating.

You’re in an incredibly tough profession, and the fact that you still care so much—even when the system fails the people you’re trying to save—says everything about your character. I hope you have a strong support system, because compassionate people like you bear the weight of a broken system that pretends it’s functioning.
PalteseMalconFunch · 36-40, T
@FrogManSometimesLooksBothWays There are some cases that get to me…one in particular taps exactly into what you said in that second paragraph.

It was all misplaced priorities and all that and then 4 people died because no one would listen.