I find it extremely strange how all these people exude extrovert energies

Always socializing, networking, strategizing, being careful and diplomatic and so smooth with how they deal with people.
How do they do it? Come across as sociable and likeable? People barely speak to me. I'm so uncharismatic. So..... Lame. So.... Extra. You can literally interrupt me while I'm in the middle of a conversation with someone to take them away and no one would notice. Sometimes it's as if it's done deliberately. People who start socializing with me stop as soon as they find out I'm not all that. That I'm not useful to them. That I don't have any friends.

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Reflection2 · M

I am extremely slow going when it comes to socializing. I realized it's blessing. People tend to be careful around you. If you speak, they tend to listen to you because you don't say much, like others. It also, gives you an image of one, who doesn't intrude in other spaces.

But its only possible of you are contended with your self and not pretending it. You can turn it around for your self as long as learn to be happy with your self and not misinterpreting your silence and not being noticed by others