This guy at work is extremely creepy.
Um.... So basically we rely on him for statistical analysis because that's way off from our genre of work. But data collection and analysis at any private business requires a stats guy. So he's ours. The problem is..... He's a one man team. So there's no one else you can turn to for help on our office data. And he knows this.
So I had an assignment and was working on it with his help. He had shared with me about being absolutely upset about something and I had cheered him up. This time I was absolutely frustrating with workplace dynamics and he cheered me up as we worked. But then out of the blue he also insisted we dine out together to "clear my head space". Um. I don't know much social/workplace etiquette. I didn't want to go but I also didn't want to be impolite. After going back and forth I finally decided there was no harm in going and I offered to pay. In his car he insisted to pay instead but I wasn't comfortable with it. So we ended up splitting the bill. But on our way back to the office he kept insisting that he drops me home. I told him that it was out of the way and I wasn't comfortable putting anyone in that position as I couldn't reciprocate (because I don't have a car). To this he asked me "why? Aren't we friends?" and I'm like........... Um..... What do I say..... So I tried to deflect from the question. Later I was talking about my best friend and suddenly he went "so I'm not you best friend?" SIR. ARE YOU OKAY?? NO YOU ARE NOT. And I was sick of him making me uncomfortable like that so I told him straight up that he wasn't. That XYZ was my only best friend. I don't think he took that very well.
The next day he sent me a picture of himself and asked me about the uniform (we have a workplace uniform) um. I ignored it but he replied to his message to remind me to respond. I gave a neutral response. I don't think he took that well either.
Anyway so I've been asking him for the past FOUR days to send me the template of a statistical thing so that I can fill it and do my maths stuff. BTW he OFFERED to send it himself. I keep googling but there are many different kinds and IDK which one I'm supposed to use in my study. And now he keeps saying "I'll send it" but then he doesn't. I remind him everyday but he.... Doesn't..... And today I got a phone call on the deadline.... Which is today..... And he's..... Still not sending me.
I'm getting these strange vibes from him. I'm not sure what kind. What's up with him?
So I had an assignment and was working on it with his help. He had shared with me about being absolutely upset about something and I had cheered him up. This time I was absolutely frustrating with workplace dynamics and he cheered me up as we worked. But then out of the blue he also insisted we dine out together to "clear my head space". Um. I don't know much social/workplace etiquette. I didn't want to go but I also didn't want to be impolite. After going back and forth I finally decided there was no harm in going and I offered to pay. In his car he insisted to pay instead but I wasn't comfortable with it. So we ended up splitting the bill. But on our way back to the office he kept insisting that he drops me home. I told him that it was out of the way and I wasn't comfortable putting anyone in that position as I couldn't reciprocate (because I don't have a car). To this he asked me "why? Aren't we friends?" and I'm like........... Um..... What do I say..... So I tried to deflect from the question. Later I was talking about my best friend and suddenly he went "so I'm not you best friend?" SIR. ARE YOU OKAY?? NO YOU ARE NOT. And I was sick of him making me uncomfortable like that so I told him straight up that he wasn't. That XYZ was my only best friend. I don't think he took that very well.
The next day he sent me a picture of himself and asked me about the uniform (we have a workplace uniform) um. I ignored it but he replied to his message to remind me to respond. I gave a neutral response. I don't think he took that well either.
Anyway so I've been asking him for the past FOUR days to send me the template of a statistical thing so that I can fill it and do my maths stuff. BTW he OFFERED to send it himself. I keep googling but there are many different kinds and IDK which one I'm supposed to use in my study. And now he keeps saying "I'll send it" but then he doesn't. I remind him everyday but he.... Doesn't..... And today I got a phone call on the deadline.... Which is today..... And he's..... Still not sending me.
I'm getting these strange vibes from him. I'm not sure what kind. What's up with him?
26-30, F
