What should I do to help him ?

ISo that homless guy I was on about who I rescued the baby pigeon with is an self empoyled carpenter so he said hes going to dress up and come to see me tonight so hopefully he does. He said its so I still get money since I told him wednesdays can be the quietest days. He said he will give me my money back for the shoes as he said he wants to. He said he wants to date me but I have an boyfriend but hes hoping I break up with him and date him instead which I wont and im not into that guy , I told him I just want to be friends with him also I dont apperciate him trying to force me to date him and keep saying he will only get his life together if he had me and would stop trying to end his life , he needs help for all of that , also why would I date someone I only met once ? People trying to force me to choose them just makes me not want to choose them. But hes sucidial and I want him to get help for it. How do I convince him to get professional help when the only reason he will get it is if I date him ?

Dan193 · 31-35, M

He's a manipulator. Anyone who tells you that they'll kill themselves if you dont do something for them, is just trying to manipulate your good nature. He doesnt care about you and your friendship, he just wants to fulfill his sick needs. And in this case is to get control over you.
Just get on with your life and treat him as a customer and nothing more.