How would you handle a coworker ( your trainer) who speaks to you in a very condescending tone?

She doesn't speak to ANYONE ELSE the way she speaks to me.

She'll route back items that I've made a mistake on ( through the computer) and wont say whats wrong with it. When I ask, i get told to figure it out. Like in a rude way. Anyone else asks " oh look right here, you forgot [blank]".

I haven't even been here for a month and I'm tired of putting up with her antics.

The manager seems rude herself. She's never asked how things/ training is going.

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InOtterWords · F

I had a similar situation. She always seemed to shoot me down in meetings and was always dismissive of me. Then at a works do, after a couple of glasses of wine I spoke to her about it. I told her I respected her and her ideas....she was brilliant.....and after that she was better. We were never best friends but a few years later she asked me to work with her on a project, and I learnt a lot about pushing back on demands and saying no from her.