I kept wanting to dissociate. I was feeling dizzy recounting all my experiences

He had to stop for 20 minutes to talk to me about stalking. Then, towards the end, he told me he would be issuing a no-contact order to him in person so he could witness his reaction. If he acts unhinged, he'll let me know, but to be on the lookout since he knows where I live and you never know how someone will react.

I find all us this unsettling. I want to hide. I feel scared.

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ScreamingFox · 41-45, F

Been there. I hate it for you, but it's time to get hyper vigilant. Maybe invest in some door stoppers and an alarm. Stay at a friends or with family. Pick up some bear spray, or whatever taser or capstun and get life360 app.

Hopefully they piss off because they don't want trouble with the law, but the sad truth is you don't know.

Just stay checked in with loved ones. Don't go through it alone. Give yourself a pass because if you can't sleep it's gonna get loopy.