Ever had to make peace with someone and be like oh yea let's start over, while you know deep down that they do not wish you good?
I do not want to sound mean spirited or vindictive, but the only reason I accepted a peace invitation from a colleague is just so that when they screw up, and I know they will because this is just who they are, I can say; hey I was open to peace and was cooperative, but they did it again! 🤷♀️ I am sorry, but people don't change overnight, petty people will remain petty, those with severe ego issues that they can't even see will still act on their ego, and those who don't like you or are jealous of you will remain as shch! It is not like they will suddenly fall in love with you and weirdly coincidentally when you have something on them. So I can't force myself to sense genuineness. Plus, I am way past that stage in life, and past this stage specifically with these people, where I'd get all mushy and forget about everything the minute someone makes a gesture.
Sadly, i think the older I get the less I am able to forgive and the colder I am.
Sadly, i think the older I get the less I am able to forgive and the colder I am.
31-35, F