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Jessikah56 · 22-25, F
Oh wow, that must be scary! How big would yours have to be before you considered a reduction? At 74 inches, most things must be impacted by now =/
Jessikah56 · 22-25, F
Well when you message me back we can =) I've already sent two so it won't let me send anymore. And I don't want to clog up the rest of your thread :P
veeceekay1991 · 31-35, F
Okay, will do. I'll look for your messages or will message you directly, okay?
Jessikah56 · 22-25, F
Okies =)

bighappysmiles · 26-30, F
i'm not saying i know what exactly macromastia entails, but one thing i've learned is you have to be happy with yourself no matter what god and nature has given you.
veeceekay1991 · 31-35, F
A reduction is a highly personal decision. I know women who have suffered since puberty and long for an opportunity at a normal life. For me, however, I would not consider a reduction unless I completely lost my independence and mobility. I believe in a purposeful God, consequently I must believe that He made me this way for a reason. Sometimes that reason is cloudy and difficult to see, but it is my life's mission to ascertain what it is.
veeceekay1991 · 31-35, F
Staying physically fit is important--especially strengthening the core of the body and the back. Problem is that after you get so big, exercise is extremely difficult.
veeceekay1991 · 31-35, F
I agree completely. But I will say that it took several years and a good measure of suffering before I arrived at that perspective.
veeceekay1991 · 31-35, F
Clothes can be a huge problem for just what LoveHer0011 said. People judge on the basis of what they see.
veeceekay1991 · 31-35, F
People tend to prejudge you. If I have a voluptuous figure, I must be an airhead and sleep around. Clothes are also high on the problem list.
veeceekay1991 · 31-35, F
There is no advantage. Contrary to what some think, this is a real disorder. It HAS made me more empathetic to those who suffer and given me an opportunity to, perhaps, help and encourage them in some small way. So, that is a positive.
veeceekay1991 · 31-35, F
Upper clothing is expensive, yes, because it has to be custom made or seriously altered. I have been blessed because my mother is a very good seamstress and helps me with that stuff. People, in general, are kind. Some are genuinely curious and I try to be patient with them and answer their questions. Occasionally a few get cruel. Not so much now as when I was a teenager. You have to realize that I am over 6 feet tall in shoes and have a pretty fierce scowl, so some that comment move on in a hurry or apologize. There will always be a few dimwits--people who think I am a easy mark for sexual advances and quickly find out that is not the case.

I am happy to answer your honest questions within reason. I will tell you if you ask something that I'd prefer not to answer. :-)
veeceekay1991 · 31-35, F
Yes. Chronic, spontaneous lactation is very common in macro women. I've heard macromastia defined as "pregnancy without the baby" and from what I've seen and experienced that's quite true.
veeceekay1991 · 31-35, F
I doubt if any doctors say to themselves, "macro is not such a big deal." I know they are more professional than that. However, it could be a very subtle or subliminal response. When I started growing very big, my endocrinologist gave me and my parents these options: 1) hormone therapy, which may or may not work, but could be dangerous; 2) have surgery which may or may not solve the problem (it does not always do so in real macro women); 3) do nothing--"watchful waiting"--and see what happens. That was the total medical approach.
veeceekay1991 · 31-35, F
Teens suffer the most because of extreme social ostracism during a time that would be difficult under "normal" circumstances.
veeceekay1991 · 31-35, F
True that. Lots of talc--if they find it causes cancer, I'm a dead woman. Boob sweat is the worst too. Proper hygiene is essential.
veeceekay1991 · 31-35, F
That is true. The glass is half full and half empty at the same time.
veeceekay1991 · 31-35, F
Many more disadvantages, both physical and social.
NaturallyKurious · 31-35
Veeceekay, Fascinating. I like that you're open enough to field questions big and small in this group. Props to you being casual and open.
NaturallyKurious · 31-35
@veeceekay1991: Well having an open mind and discussing directly certainly helps. You seem to have a good grasp of self.
HoraceGreenley · 61-69, M
@NaturallyKurious: She has a good head on her shoulders.
NaturallyKurious · 31-35
@HoraceGreenley: certainly seems the case
veeceekay1991 · 31-35, F
Tying shoes? No way. Just slip ons and--I'm ashamed to say--velcro. Can't eat in most restaurant booths. Driving small cars is difficult. Dropping things on the floor presents a retrieval challenge. I have to use one of those split computer keyboards at work. Gee. I had a whole list of these things on my blog, but can't find it.
veeceekay1991 · 31-35, F
A lot of people still use "gigantomastia."I don't think it's wrong to use it (both gigantomastia and macromastia are used on this website). I'm just telling you what doctors have told me--that macro is the approved medical term.
veeceekay1991 · 31-35, F
"Macromastia"--extremely large breasts caused by a hormonal disorder.
Tallsouthafrican · 36-40, M
@veeceekay1991 do you have this condition?
Moosepantspatty · 31-35, M
I have a question, What are the plans for Thanksgiving this year?
Moosepantspatty · 31-35, M
You let me know if the invitation is still open, and I will FIND a way to be there this time, no excuses!
TYEBOE · 70-79, M
@Moosepantspatty: I'd like to be there too.
Moosepantspatty · 31-35, M
@TYEBOE: If it's at my place, your welcome to come!
How busty are you and when did t all start?
How did you manage it all?
@doodlebug2013: I thought it would be very typical for a Mom to want to breast feed after birth, but alas.
However, by the sound of things, you would have a great deal of milk and could interfere with your daily life.
Obviously a personal choice. Good to know. :)
doodlebug2013 · 41-45, F
It really is a very personal choice. It's more typical for this mom to do whatever best allows me to care for my child and function well in daily life. 🙂
TYEBOE · 70-79, M
@doodlebug2013: a very personal choice. Am I correct in thinking your breasts grew during pregnancy and never returned to their normal size? If so how did you adjust in everyday life to your new size? Just doing things you took for granted must have been more difficult. Your body would have to adjust to the weight. I've read stories about women whose husbands suddenly found their wive's new size offensive and this caused marriage problems. Not in your case, but it happens.
No offense intended.
veeceekay1991 · 31-35, F
In theory, I'm not opposed to that, but it really is a time issue for me. I just don't have the time to get bogged down in lengthy conversations. Sorry!
veeceekay1991 · 31-35, F
It can be a vicious circle. Pumping is necessary for a couple of reasons. First, they will leak which is an absolute mess and it is extremely uncomfortable. Second, infection can set in which is mastitis. But, as you've indicated pumping stimulates the breasts which increases both growth and the rate of lactation.
Danny9124 · 31-35, M
Test, test, direct replies! xD Anyways, your don´t leak really, do they?
veeceekay1991 · 31-35, F
Yes, they can certainly leak.
Danny9124 · 31-35, M
Oh, does it happen often?
veeceekay1991 · 31-35, F
Yes, back and neck pain can be excruciating. A well-fitting custom bra is essential to living a tolerable life.
veeceekay1991 · 31-35, F
Yes, very many. It got so bad that my parents pulled me out of public school and allowed me to be homeschooled for high school.
veeceekay1991 · 31-35, F
Ah, we're okay. And I was kidding about the expenses being close to equal. The bras are expensive, but not THAT expensive!
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veeceekay1991 · 31-35, F
I had no idea that I was the ONLY macromastia girl on this site! My dear macro sisters, please feel free to contribute from your own experience!
AceWarbringer · 41-45, M
Well, macro is a "Big" deal...

Yes I did the pun. Sorry. :P

I think its more along the lines of "if it ain't broke, don't fix it." If the woman involved is healthy and coping with things. Ie: They are not injured or will become injured, theres isn't any undue hardship or stress on the body.

Then we are talking about a non emergency surgery that is"cosmetic" in nature.

This I think puts the doctors towards the "wait and see" approach. Is it going to cause problems? ECT ect.
veeceekay1991 · 31-35, F
I had to quit soccer and basketball when my macro kicked in. I still miss those sports 13 years later.
veeceekay1991 · 31-35, F
Gigantomastia and macromastia are the same. Different words but the same hormonal disorder.
veeceekay1991 · 31-35, F
32 inches.
wuiop2 · 41-45
@HoraceGreenley: In that case, neither. I'd prefer to move to PM for this.
HoraceGreenley · 61-69, M
@wuiop2: No Problem. You don't have to say anything.
SW-User
@GenesisWingman it’s each inch difference = cup size bigger B cup is not 2 inches bigger than Acup
veeceekay1991 · 31-35, F
Last time I ordered a couple, they were about $140 a piece.
veeceekay1991 · 31-35, F
Yes, I use a split keyboard at work, so I can type on either side.
AceWarbringer · 41-45, M
You know... I just want to know who's been drinking my beer....
veeceekay1991 · 31-35, F
Well, that person would need a special bra with different sized cups.
veeceekay1991 · 31-35, F
Six feet, young man.
Danny9124 · 31-35, M
ah, not a bad body size, I see! do you like your size?
veeceekay1991 · 31-35, F
Height, yes. Bustiness, less so.
Danny9124 · 31-35, M
Oh, ok! I thought you like it being big, Ronnie. o. o
TYEBOE · 70-79, M
What was it like growing up and being bigger than all the other girls I did message hoping to talk to you.
veeceekay1991 · 31-35, F
74" around the bust line.
I'm only 62" tall :s
Danny9124 · 31-35, M
That would have been a real hassle if you would be so big then, Sarah.^^"
veeceekay1991 · 31-35, F
Aww, you're sweet to say that.
Danny9124 · 31-35, M
Oh well, life is a two sliced-sword it seems. Everything positive has something negative and reversed. It just depends how the proportion to pros and cons is. Btw, I would like to chat with you about that via PM if you don´t mind. I don´t wanna spam your story with my messages here.
veeceekay1991 · 31-35, F
Spurts are of unpredictable length. I would say that mine average seveal weeks in duration. If they are too intense, the flesh on the breasts tightens to the point that ulcers can form. I've had that happen a couple of times. I know that if you search the Internet, you can find these grotesque photos of women with huge breasts who have suffered from multiple ulcerations and even necrosis (dead breast tissue). Those are a macro woman's worst nightmare.
SW-User
What's that?
GenesisWingman · 36-40, M
Hello veeceekay.
Can we chat by ppersonal message here by SW because, I would like to know more about macro- and gigantomastia. I mean, which from this do you have and what are the difference from them?
AceWarbringer · 41-45, M
Very true. It seems the hormonal is characterized by extreme fluctuations as the body's chemistry goes haywire.

Genetic seems steady and slow.


I'm a power plant worker, not a doctor so take it with a grain of salt.
GenesisWingman · 36-40, M
I'm curious about women who have macromastia. I mean, how they can handle their life, are all upper clothes and bras expensive because they are maybe custom made, how can they handle it with staring and cruel people,.... I would like to chat with you about that if you like! To learn more about this condition.
veeceekay1991 · 31-35, F
Difficult, especially in small cars. Sometimes I have to push the seat back so far that I can hardly reach the pedals and I'm a tall person.
Danny9124 · 31-35, M
How tall are you, young lady?^^
Bryguy5446 · 41-45, M
Is it difficult to find the right size bra?
Bryguy5446 · 41-45, M
I would imagine that would add to it. I only asked because of the date on your response. Have you had another growth spurt?
veeceekay1991 · 31-35, F
No, no spurt, thank God.
Bryguy5446 · 41-45, M
So what is the most amount that you have grown during a growth spurt?
GenesisWingman · 36-40, M
Good to hear!
Ok! How much did they had cost as you was at the college?
By the way, as I had say about to write by mail, I had ment by personal message here by SW. Is that possible?
veeceekay1991 · 31-35, F
Heavy weight and straining fabrics.
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Danny9124 · 31-35, M
Well, for a woman with your size it´s life saving! Hmmm, if I could, I would massage your back, Ronnie.^^ If you would allow me that of course, would you? xD
GenesisWingman · 36-40, M
Oh my god! Ulcers? I hope that wasn't too bad by youself! I mean, a surgery is expensive too, when I'm right! That's really an awful nightmare!
A very good college I bet or? Fairly close call still sounds like a lot of money! I hope your parents had the money or do you must wear some smaller bras a longer time?

 
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