I Hate Going to the Gynecologist

Lol so today I had my first gynecologist appointment, which went well.. however it was very awkward.
The woman was very uptight and prudish, which is what I expected from a gynecologist.. but she crossed lines.
She literally said “I know I shouldn’t be saying this because you’re my patient, but woman to woman you shouldn’t be with a man that much older than you” like wtf. Isn’t this something she could get in big trouble for?
She even asked if I wanted to seek counseling and I told her I already had previously and hated it, and she literally kept insisting that I do it and that this counseling is different and will help me understand why being with an older mature man isn’t wise.
She literally wouldn’t stop pressing the issue, no matter what topic we talked about it was always how young I am and how much time I have ahead of myself to not settle yet.
I started to question maybe she was in a similar situation when she was younger and didn’t have anyone there to tell her what she was telling me, because she mentioned she had a 17year old kid and was a single mom her whole life...
Regardless, was she in the wrong for belittling my life decisions? Legally couldn’t she be in big trouble?
Also when I go back in 3 months to start my birth control do you think I should make my boyfriend go with me? I thought about doing it to make her feel uncomfortable the way I did.. lol. But maybe I shouldn’t?
Personal opinions?