I see so many people say: Slay Queen. At grossly overweight women. I don't care about being a gender traitor. That's just not healthy
You hear people say: 'oh that's 'natural curves' women had lot of different body shapes. That's just REAL women. To an extent that's true, women of color can have very different *shape* bodies than so called size zero white women with no ass. BUT THEY ARE REAL WOMEN TOO AND SO ARE THE SKINNY WHITE GIRLS. And btw that's also not an excuse for being overweight. That's not the traditional look of almost any native people anywhere on earth black, asian or whatever... That's my TED talk.