She and her scents

I recently went out with a women I really liked! In a short time, we realized from the story that we have common interests and that we can function well. On the second meeting, we cuddled... However, not everything is ideal, I smelled unpleasant smells when she gets comfortable, which bothers me. I wonder if this is the reason for bad hygiene or if it could be a hormonal disorder or something similar. I'm going to talk to her, but first I'd like to know more about it so I don't hurt her.
Otherwise, the woman is completely ok, sociable, communicative, cultured... She does not give the impression of a person who does not take care of herself.

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BackyardShaman · 61-69, M

Too early to bring up

SW-User

@BackyardShaman I agree.

Penny · 46-50, F

maybe she was just nervous. that can make you perspire. some people have strong body odor. if you really like her you could buy her a gift of a luxurious body wash set or extra nice natural soap and lotion combo or something to give her the hint gently. pick somethign you liek the smell of. or like a gift certificate to a store that specializes in it like Lush or something similar.

eta- if you do, just tell her you wanted ot buy her somehitng nice and everyone needs soap lol

RuyLopez · 56-60, M

Some people have stronger body odor than others. Her's might have been exacerbated due to nerves and stress with the first few dates with a possible new relationship.

SW-User

the question is if she's hippie and not wearing deodorant... If she goes to some gym/dance/yoga class before you meet..
Or if it's a deeper health issue. It could be as simple as that she needs to visit the dentist. Good luck with this..

Justpassingthrough · M

@SW-User I didn't ask anything about it because I was uncomfortable, but the conversation will have to happen if it continues. Thank you

SW-User

@Justpassingthrough you can ask indirect things before you go and ask straight and overwhelm you both. But I can understand you, smell is Very important, it conveys some of the most important information. I've been put off or on just by smell many times.
Sweat for me, if the person is healthy and taking showers regularly, is a pleasant smell .
Each to their own of course!