I've gotten to the point in Buffy the Vampire Slayer where Riley leaves

& Xander & Anya are lying in bed together judging Buffy for having had two boyfriends in her life; saying that she's the problem for not being able to make it work with either a vampire who turned evil & went on a murderous rampage if he experienced even one second of happiness, or the other guy who cheated on her with vampire prostitutes because she's physically stronger than him.

Okay then.