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ArishMell · 70-79, M
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Yes, cheating is wrong, Nugget, but it would also be wrong to interfere and could make things even worse, and for more than just the couple.
Long before the Internet and contact sites. I watched a friend's marriage broken up by the wife's affair with another member of our circle of friends - and with another man trying, vainly, to compete with the adulterer for the same woman's affections. I was even asked to be a witness for the wronged husband, by his solicitor.
It was not a pleasant time for any of us; but there is nothing anyone outside of the three people directly involved, can or should do.
Yes, cheating is wrong, Nugget, but it would also be wrong to interfere and could make things even worse, and for more than just the couple.
Long before the Internet and contact sites. I watched a friend's marriage broken up by the wife's affair with another member of our circle of friends - and with another man trying, vainly, to compete with the adulterer for the same woman's affections. I was even asked to be a witness for the wronged husband, by his solicitor.
It was not a pleasant time for any of us; but there is nothing anyone outside of the three people directly involved, can or should do.