Have u ever been cheated on before in a relationship ?

☺ How did that feel if you don't mind me asking. I wouldn't say an ex of mines cheated. But she told me she had a guy she liked after we broke up.
Other than that, no. How about you.

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ExploringThoughts · 36-40, M

Let's just say that with one of my former relationships that cheating wasn't a mistake; it was a feature.

Zonuss · 41-45, M

A feature. Explain.

ExploringThoughts · 36-40, M

@Zonuss: Ah, well the girl got caught pretty early on in the relationship for cheating and vowed never to do it again. 3 1/2 years later and I had found out that she had been consistently cheating with various people without my knowledge. All considering though, there was a lot of issues bundled with that one, and she remains the only ex that to this day that I choose to never speak to again.

Zonuss · 41-45, M

@ExploringThoughts: Dont be too trusting of others. And dont let your guard down to far for someone taking advantage of you.☺

ExploringThoughts · 36-40, M

@Zonuss: Yeah this was years ago, and don't regret forgiving her the first time (I was honestly unaware of the cheating for many years after). A lot of the reason I feel I forgave her was to try to suppress my own guilt from cheating on someone in the past. That break-up forced me to confront the issues of two relationships at the same, work towards improving myself, and growing from it in a healthy way where I don't repeat bad habits.