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Why on earth do people follow you if they didnt plan to chat with you?

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Heartlander · 80-89, M
Adding someone to your circle is a way to read what else that person has to say later. Otherwise they get lost in the shuffle. The search filter in the menu bar above lets you filter just the stories and questions from friends and groups. It doesn't necessarily mean you are being targeted or stalked.
annamarie65 · 56-60, F
im talking about complete strangers...people i have nothing in common with...
Heartlander · 80-89, M
Well, the two aren't "friends" until each adds the other. So if someone posts a question or story that trips my switch, following them simply increases the chances of seeing more of what they have to say. It's kind of like following an author or musician. I don't think I ever sent an author or musician any fan mail or sought them out to chat, yet I still may like what they have to say, or sing. Great if they likewise follow me back. Maybe we'll even chat and one day become great friends.

So, if I add 50 people who provide enlightenment or amusement or make what I consider a good contribution here, that means I'll likely find something that's enlightening, amusing or positive when I visit. And that's why I visit. To gain from others' experiences and share my own.