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deadmoon · 31-35, F
When I'm not interested in a guy that's obviously interested in me they tend to incline themselves even more towards me the more I try to keep them at arm's length. I suppose because it makes them try harder. Sort of like the allure of a girl that's hard to get except in my case I'm not playing, I really don't want to be with them.
Upon making that observation, I decided to try it on guys that showed interest in me even in cases where I really was interested in them just to see if it would get them to gravitate even more towards me like it does with guys I'm trying to push away. It also worked like a charm.
So I guess my advice is don't throw yourself at them and make it obvious how much you like them. Keep them at arm's length. It'll somehow keep them coming back for more (if the guy you're interested in is also interested in you, if not it won't matter).
Upon making that observation, I decided to try it on guys that showed interest in me even in cases where I really was interested in them just to see if it would get them to gravitate even more towards me like it does with guys I'm trying to push away. It also worked like a charm.
So I guess my advice is don't throw yourself at them and make it obvious how much you like them. Keep them at arm's length. It'll somehow keep them coming back for more (if the guy you're interested in is also interested in you, if not it won't matter).