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Why doesn't anyone ever call to cancel anymore instead of leaving people hanging?

Seriously, how hard is it to grab your cell phone, click on a name in your contacts, call the person you need to cancel on and say, "I'm sorry, something came up. I won't be able to make it" instead of leaving them hanging wondering when you will be arriving every time you tell them you will be stopping by? I don't get it. If you can call them to let them know you're stopping by, why can't you call to let them know you need to cancel if the need arises? Is it just me or is it really that hard to find someone with that courtesy these days? I haven't met anyone who is courteous enough to call if they need to cancel a visit or anything like that in years. Years! It's really annoying because it really shouldn't be that complicated. With everyone owning a cell phone these days it should be the easiest thing in the world.
P.S: Yes, I was just left hanging again by the repairman who was a no-show for the third time in a row without notice hence my frustration.
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shaelan · 41-45, M
This used to be a pet peeve of mine for the longest time. Even *gasp* before cell phones were a thing.

I stopped expecting anyone to ever carry through with their plans.

I am no longer disappointed.

Then again, you're talking about a repair job. And I think in that case, you should really take your business elsewhere.
ReaperofTime · 46-50, M
FLAKY FUCKS
shaelan · 41-45, M
@ReaperofTime: Yes. They actually transcended 'flaky'. I have no word for it but now it doesn't matter.
ReaperofTime · 46-50, M
@shaelan: Horseshit. Thats the right description
shaelan · 41-45, M
No, because if you wanted to, you can actually interact with horse shit.
deadmoon · 31-35, F
Thing is, this isn't the only repairman who doesn't bother to call when he can't make it. We live in a very old house so we nearly always have something that needs to be repaired. We've been through many repairmen. Nobody calls if they have to cancel. Sure, nobody has ever flaked out as much as this one, but when they can't show up... Well, we won't know about it until it's later in the day and they never showed.
shaelan · 41-45, M
@deadmoon: Exactly. And by then, you have to call someone else, have them come the day after, or when it 'works for them', which is meaningless if they just never show up. That has got to be really, really frustrating.
deadmoon · 31-35, F
@shaelan: As rich people say, it is so hard to find good help these days!
shaelan · 41-45, M
@deadmoon: So true, and for so many kinds of help!