How can I feel better about my figure?

Im a size 8 and I have a little bit of belly fat and I don't feel good wearing a bikini when I go to the beach.
How do I feel better about myself?

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ronisme1 · 61-69, M

post a bikini photo and ask us guys what they think - you will see how desirable you are.

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heatherpommelman · 31-35, F

I am defo not confident enough to do that 😂😂😂

Benny5678 · 41-45, T

Or measure your worth in a different way, as I'm not sure that being desired by a load of horny old men is a good thing

heatherpommelman · 31-35, F

@JKJKJK: Bruh I like you

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heatherpommelman · 31-35, F

@pete11: No you fuck off. You can't even say the word fuck. You're a fucking pos.

Benny5678 · 41-45, T

@pete11: say what you want to me, I don't mind. You're old, you'll be dead soon

ronisme1 · 61-69, M

now - lets not turn this into a fight- i wanted her to hear how many don't think she is fat- but maybe if she looks in a mirror by herself- maybe she will see it

Benny5678 · 41-45, T

Point is... Who cares what others think.

Being overweight is not a problem unless it damages your health. A bit of fat shouldn't matter. Society puts more weight into what you look like than who you are. If all these beautiful idiots spent half the time they spend in the gym helping people, then the world would be a better place

ronisme1 · 61-69, M

well said- self worth is all important