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Why are there so many absurd beauty standards for women?

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Because if you're not nice to look at you are worthless. Beauty = worth and value.

Beauty and attractiveness is everything in society's eyes. It's the number one most important thing.
That's complete bs
@briyeli: Agreed. It's messed up.
Cold true.
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I'd say attractiveness is huge - not aesthetic beauty, though. A person that is financially stable is more attractive, for instance, than someone who is not. Attraction is important, and huge, but has a lot to it.
@Justanotherguy: bruh so you're a gold digger 😂😂😂 wow that's pathetic
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@briyeli: lol not at all. My wife came with debt, and she was making like less than minimum wage when I met her because she was working for family and they could get away with it.

Statistically speaking, a female finds a guy more attractive if he is well enough off. I'm not talking gold digging even, I'm just talking security. Security is important to all of us - girls will often say they want a bigger guy for protection, even though we live in a day and age where that usually never comes up. The need to protect someone, where physical size and strength would come into play.

The numbers follow females, I don't know how it works for males - mostly males that aren't deep look for a pretty face or a nice body. But there's no shame in someone that wants a person who is smart enough to run on a budget and be able to afford their lifestyle - even if that lifestyle is not one of luxury or excess. It's a form of security, it's a form of being assured that things will be okay.

Honestly , I'm still working on it, in my situation. She came with debt and I didn't have a lot of savings, I thought I was going to be a bachelor forever haha. Stupid me. So now I'm working towards providing for my family, and so far I am providing the basics, but I'd love for us to live comfortably and even be able to give to others one day.