How many of you are homophobic, c'mon don't be shy now, put your hand up

I'm not homophobic but I had a gay friend and we really got on at the start but I noticed little things like he'd regularly ask me for money, when he was earning more than me and lived at home, I was living alone and was struggling to pay my rent, he often would pick something on the menu eat his and then want to eat mine he wasn't very sharing. He'd do things to antagonize people and always push me forward to fight his battles, I nearly got beat down by a group of lesbians in g.a.y for him. When I mentioned these things to him, he said I'm saying this because I'm homophobic... I just didn't like being taken advantage of it having my life at risk...
My other gay friend is so adorable, I hate that he lives abroad he is everything you want in a man and more... I miss him dearly...