Listening to a podcast of a lady who was told by mom when she was NINE, mom is getting divorce, won't come back him in the evening.

Dad took care of her. How the thing broke him, he developed cancer, passed away. I mean move on, why record a podcast and talk about how it impacted your life, that thing is past now, agreed? She talks about how mom would cry all night, she still lives with mom, doesn't feel same, looks down on mom for spoiling everything they had. Why resent your mom, still live with her as an adult and resent her at the same time?