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Not any one thing, it is the combination of things. For me, it is way more about the mind. If you've been distant, hurtful, or a jerk...It's hard to get in the mood. Personal hygiene is huge for me. So, making me feel desired and loved as well as taking good care of yourself are a pretty big turn on.