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Has someone's profile interested you but you may be too shy or reserved to make the first move?

Enchanted · 56-60, F
I rarely make the first contact....what I will do is follow a bit and communicate on their posts etc..you get a vibe that way!
OWise1 · F
Good point
Briskie · F
Yes sort of, I feel sometimes that there are sort of cliques and when you try to start talking with them the reception is usually icy if any at all.
Faust76 · 46-50, M
I'm not really drawn by profiles though, the interaction on Q&A and stories is much more important, and I don't recall if I've ever messaged anyone on EP or SW that I didn't first interact significantly in the Q&A. Of course, I can't say that's been highly useful.
OWise1 · F
I understand
SW-User
OWise1 · F
lol
Faust76 · 46-50, M
Doesn't matter who makes the first move, only who makes the last move matters...
Oh wait, you mean the other "profile" might not make a move... Or maybe they move, but to another profile? 🤔
OWise1 · F
That made me smile: thank you :) lol
OWise1 · F
I understand :)
Noble · 56-60, M
If I am drawn to a profile because of public posts and profile,I would not hesitate to PM them, with reason.
OWise1 · F
Coincidentally ;) I feel the same way. :)
Noble · 56-60, M
🤗
toddr13 · 46-50, M
Not shy, I just don't want to bother the other person.
OWise1 · F
well maybe you aren't bothering but you only perceive you are? lol
toddr13 · 46-50, M
Lol...that's true. It could be perception, but I guess it's a carryover from EP days when I got that sense from some people when contacting them about mutual groups, etc.
OWise1 · F
@toddr13: Well it is what it is and if you don't try, you'll never know.
The first move is to give a bean *gives bean*
OWise1 · F
Mr. Bean is it really you? :)
@OWise1: no silly, im just a humble bean bandit! 😊
OWise1 · F
@BeanBandit: Bean there done that :)
What is the first move?
OWise1 · F
@GoldenWorm:Checkmate :) or is it check your mate? lol
Oh, that's too formal.
OWise1 · F
@Calliope: lol
GoldenWorm · 51-55, M
not yet - anyone should feel free to contact me though
OWise1 · F
Always good to know :)
SW-User
no. I'm just cautious. and they'll grow weary of me soon enough.
OWise1 · F
I understand.
hoblinbobgoblin · 51-55, M
over and over
OWise1 · F
:)
lol no never.
SW-User
OWise1 · F
:)
tnjazz · 70-79, M
I let folks knock on my door first. I usually open the door though
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OWise1 · F
:) heheh

 
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