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Depends how you define ladies man, its relative to each woman in my experience I hold doors open for women out of courtesy nothing more, as I was taught to for women, old people which another 10 years I will be, and children. That is one aspect, walking on the near side of the road was seen as gallant so using those as examples if a person did that they would be construed to be a ladies man. Depends on how YOU see it though.
SteelHands · 61-69, M
That's not what me or my teams ever meant by it. I'm sure that being a gentleman like you described it is part of it though. something less than the lady killer. A man who sets the example to other men. The man who women fantasize about while they boink their men. The one they really actually want but can't have. Lol
Don't know where you are from but in UK when someone says they are a ladies man gentlemanly aspects are part and parcel of the make-up besides the obvious good looks, being suave, debonair etc. Think James Bond then you may get it, but since neither of us are him, we have to work with what we got.
SteelHands · 61-69, M
@GlobalNomad: Very close to exact you are. The James Bond reference is spot on. I'm in an area of the USA there is lots of European influence. Germantown / New Berlin area in WI.
@Noahkahol: Hope things in Germantown are going well for you. I lived in US 30 years missed that town but got to 37 states Wisconsin was not one amazingly so LOL.
SteelHands · 61-69, M
Things are going fairly good. Hope the same for you. Wisconsin is one of those less traveled to areas. So less populated and inclement weather. It's very cold here right now. Much like Canada.
@Noahkahol: trade with you 104f today...well I lived in Chicago made it to MN, MI...lol missed WI...cheers
SteelHands · 61-69, M
104? That would cook me right now. It's about 68 degrees in my abode and the furnace is running nonstop. Lol
LMFAO I lived in Colorado I kept it at 61-65 max...I do cold it had to get to 35f before I wore trousers always in shorts except for work...20 before I put on a coat...sweater was always enough...I am melting...
SteelHands · 61-69, M
I know how that is. A physically demanding job in a extra warm climate does not make life easy for the fair skinned among us. Likewise a cold one for the ones with ancestors that come from the heat zones of the world. Well stay hydrated. I'll keep moving and try to stay warm. Bid chatting. L8tr.