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In my case, usually not at my fault but the other person's, and they simply disappear from my life without explanation. When it does happen, when it is my fault, it's from an overwhelming sense of tugging at all sides, and I'm not sure how to define what's right for myself and I don't know how to place people in my life. I've never had love the way I want it, I'm realizing that now, but I can't always play the victim, and some people deserve better from me. If I can't help them all, or at least be a positive influence, I figure everybody would be better off without me.
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You're capable of showing great insight and warming care, even when your head is in a tempest. I really wish you wouldn't take yourself out of people's lives because you didn't think you were good enough. Maybe some people can't heal you the way you need, but they can provide an ear and a shoulder for you, and for some people that makes a lot of difference when they find themselves needing one. Better than spending every night grasping at straws in front of a computer at least