No Dm policy

I just discovered the feature today. Until we have a sense of each other, I don’t want to talk privately.

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helenS · 36-40, F

Yes but maybe, sometimes, a sense of each other will be developing through pm's and chats?

bijouxbroussard · F

@helenS And other times, replying allows the person to send an inappropriate photo. They can’t send those unless you reply to that first DM. Sadly, it’s those fellows who make folk less willing to take a chance.

helenS · 36-40, F

@bijouxbroussard Not sure if that has ever happened to me. Although maybe it has, maybe I've received an unsolicited "inappropriate" photo.

bijouxbroussard · F

@helenS I have, alas. Didn’t like it. Admittedly it doesn’t bother everyone. But I suspect the OP would probably rather not receive them. Being careful with dms isn’t a bad idea.

Funtoy4u · 61-69, M

@helenS I may have sent an inappropriate photo or two but never unsolicited. hehe

helenS · 36-40, F

@Funtoy4u People do stupid things occasionally and I am certainly no exception.
If I were a man I don't think I'd ever send a nude picture to a woman because you can never predict how she will react.

Funtoy4u · 61-69, M

@helenS If she wants to see she will at least hint at it. Sending unsolicited is just asking for trouble.

helenS · 36-40, F

@Funtoy4u 👍