Do u know how a woman can increase her value or worth ? ♀️
I was reading an interesting article on Quora a few minutes ago. And I just happened to come across this subject. The worth of a woman. We see how some women and men lose their value after tribulation. Some do drugs. Some have sex with multiple people in a short period of time. Some becomes users and abusers. And some lose their faith in God. Can you tell me how a woman can increase her value or worth. One answered that when a woman embraces herself she increases her value. Her beauty inside and out. I agree that is a good place to start. What do you think 🤔 Best answer wins. 🌝
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Faith in God or lack thereof has nothing to do with a person's value.
A person's worth is based on what other people think of them. Having self-esteem is always helpful as it can lead to success. I wouldn't say it's universal, however. Marjorie Taylor Greene is definitely "embracing herself" but I wouldn't say she adds anything to the world by her presence as it's mostly destructive. Same for Donald Trump who definitely has a high opinion of himself and has never hesitated to show the rest of us who he truly is. But if you're talking about an ordinary, unknown individual then definitely being their authentic self is a positive.
Also, kudos for showing a plus size woman as one of your examples.
@SW-User Some of them are actually healthy. Thin women often have just as much health issues if not more. Especially the ones who have low blood or lack of iron. Some have eating disorders as well. Anorexia is real.
Iron has nothing to do with weight. I am slim, and according to my midwife I have excellent iron levels. That is despite being a vegetarian, too.
Most thin women do not have eating disorders, but let's consider what you mean by "thin".
Do you mean demonstrably underweight? Most women aren't, and there could be a number of reasons for it when that does happen. I would say that being underweight IS unhealthy and does present its own risks, but none of these risks negate the risks to being overweight. All you have in this scenario is two unhealthy groups of people, as opposed to one.
A compromise, and the most healthy one, is having a slim figure. This means not being plump, having excess fat, or being a weight that is not within your recommended BMI range.
@SW-User Fat does not indicate bad health. Your too young dear to understand the world even as it is now. You have much to learn. You can start by living in the US for a year or two. 🙂
@Zonuss I've never seen any evidence for God's existence, so I don't have a "relationship" with him. The idea of a "personal relationship with God" isn't even in the Bible; it only dates back to 17th century German Pietists.
@SW-User The woman in the photo is barely plus-size and unless you're her doctor, you have no idea what her health is like. As for attraction, I find a mature, curvaceous woman far more attractive than a rail-thin model with the physique of an adolescent boy. Every time I talk to a person with fatphobia, they act like every fat woman could be a contestant on "My 600 Pound Life" with nothing in between that and anorexia.
All the fake concern about "health" also fails to take into account the fact that fat people, especially women, get substandard medical care because every complain they present with is blamed on their weight even if it has nothing to do with it. Until you correct for this, it's absurd to say that the woman in the photo is "unhealthy."
@SW-User The woman in the second photo isn't even really plus-size. Most of the fake "concern" for fat peoples' health is just fatphobia. "Glorifying obesity" is code for "fat people existing." And with all due respect, you said you're thin and haven't had to work at it particularly, so your personal experience doesn't necessarily apply to everyone.
The woman in the second photo isn't even really plus-size.
You've already said that, and I've made it clear that I think she is.
You love repeating yourself, don't you?
And with all due respect, you said you're thin and haven't had to work at it particularly, so your personal experience doesn't necessarily apply to everyone.
Neither does yours, thank God. If you had your way women would be going around thinking it's hot to be fat.
@SW-User And as usual, you refuse to address my point that the claimed health effects of obesity have a lot to do with fatphobia in the medical profession.
The woman in the second photo is barely verging on plus size. If you look at her and your first thought is "OMG she's so fat," I would wonder if you have anorexia or some other disorder that causes you to see people as fatter than they actually are.
And what's wrong with fat women thinking they're attractive? Many of them are. Just because you're skinny and some men are turned on by women who look like 12 year old boys with boobs doesn't make you an authority on human beauty. If you feel compelled to put down fat women to make yourself feel better, that's just your way of dealing with your own insecurities over your appearance.
Throughout most of human history, the woman in the second photo would have been considered very attractive for the evolutionary reason that she looks mature, healthy, and capable of bearing children and nursing them. Not that that's all women are good for, but we did evolve to find features attractive that suggest reproductive suitability.
@SW-User LOL Slade, is that you? GFYS you misogynist swine. I have to say, very creative to come up with an alt that’s a young mom in the UK. Reporting and maybe I can get this one suspended like your other one.
