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Do u ever get leery of people who message u here on SW ? 👀

Even if they are a good person at heart.
Even though they don't really mean you any harm.
Even though they seem nice to you all the time.
Even if they for the most part have been there for you
in spite of everything you both have talked about or been through.

Do you ever feel leery or slightly suspicious, or emotionally cautious of people here who you
call a friend. Just asking. Tell us how you feel about them. Comments. ☺️

Isthisit · F Best Comment
I tend to be very trusting. When i really get to know someone on here i take them at their word. That being said i try not to get too close to anyone because i am always aware you never truly know someone until youve spent time with them in person.
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@Isthisit Well said
Isthisit · F
@Zonuss Thanks so much. Thankyou for best comment x

SW-User
Something like that yes, but it's cause I used to be really trusting in the past and naive
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@SW-User But perhaps those experiences made you a better person. 🙂
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@Zonuss A safer person at the very least
SW-User
@Zonuss @MartinTheFirst more guarded yeah
ravenwind43 · 51-55, F
Aside from occasionally, I only get messages from two people 😄 so I don't have an opinion on that.
Livingwell · 61-69, M
@ravenwind43 saying hello! 👋🏼
ravenwind43 · 51-55, F
@Livingwell I hope you are well :)
Fairydust · F
Yeah I’m cautious of everyone, I don’t let many in.

Coping mechanism I guess. 😑
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@Fairydust Coping mechanisms are real. You are only human. 🙂
Fairydust · F
@Zonuss the older I get the more I keep people at arms length.

Too many have hurt 😔
ReneeT · 61-69, M
There have been a few that felt a little uncomfortable. But I do have some great conversations with a few really nice friends here
It definitely depends on who. If I haven’t interacted with em before. I proceed with caution.
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@YourMomsSecretCrush I agree. Some people here are sneaky and have an agenda.
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
I don't trust anymore. I rarely answer anyone I don't know already.
silentwriter180 · 51-55, F
On occasion, yes. There have been times that I've needed to just break the tie and block them.

We all need to remember that 'you' are number one. Take care of yourself first. Don't feel obligated to those who you feel uncomfortable about.

I have made a few wonderful real friends here, and I am grateful.
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@silentwriter180 Thanks for sharing.
Eddiesolds · 61-69, M
Not at all..i dont pm much
SW-User
I’m weary because many close online friends have turned their backs on me so it’s natural for me to be more careful trusting.
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@SW-User It is usually the people who you think are the nicest but they turn out to be Satan. 🙂
SW-User
@Zonuss oh soo true
RubySoo · 56-60, F
Yes, because past friends turned out to be fake, or flaky, or both. Im very weary these days. Sad.
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@RubySoo Shifty, superficial, and pretentious. I have heard it all before. 🙂
Jeffrey53 · 51-55, M
Yeah I get leery of them. I hardly get messages when I do I feel they going to start catfishing me
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@Jeffrey53 Wow.
LadyJ · F
Yes i avoid people who only message me to gain information about others here..i find it weird and childish
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@LadyJ That is childish.
me too. i relate to what people have said. i feel guarded and cautious.
Saintweezer · 36-40, M
I’ve had one bad encounter so far
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@Saintweezer Oh really. What made it bad if you dont mind telling me. 🤔
Saintweezer · 36-40, M
The person volunteered to send pics of his family. I reported the person and banned them@Zonuss
revenant · F
you have to apply discernment
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@revenant Always.
No i have faith in users with good hearts
Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@Fungirlmmm ☺️
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
I'm just cautious in general, it has nothing to do with the people I talk to. People in general can change and they can betray.
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@MartinTheFirst Have you been betrayed on here before 🤔
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@Zonuss no because i know whom to trust 👀
DDonde · 31-35, M
It doesn't happen often so it's always either nice to hear from them or a novelty experience anyway.
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@DDonde Yes.
SW-User
I've seen plenty of people here get into arguments or have upsets and post their messages for everyone to see.
I've had people message me, claiming to want friendship and finding out they really just want to see if they can do the "adult content" stuff.

I have only two people who message routinely....
The rest, can't call them friends. I don't know them at all.
Yep.... quite leery of most everyone on internet.
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@SW-User It happens. Especially if you are a nice looking lady who has shown her pictures on this site.
SW-User
@Zonuss It happens if you have an F next to your name. On internet, too often, it has nothing to do with how you look. I don't and won't share my pictures on public internet.
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@SW-User Is someone here stalking you 🙂
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Zonuss · 41-45, M
@Stereoguy Yes. Those types are very weird. 🙂
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Zonuss · 41-45, M
@calicuz I see

 
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