I have met 2x men here we started out talking innocently, and then before long I guess we got lonely and things started to becoming more about potentially meeting up.
And so we did, one I knew was just for sex but that ended up being a year long relationship.
The other well we actually met to just be friends but because we were getting on for so long we decided to take the plunge.
Unfortunately for me it was a big fat disappointment and I ended up not being happy I took the plunge to go that route with him.
Online dating hasn't really been a very fun experience for me.
I often wonder if I'm actually meant to be with a man.
Don't get me wrong in not looking to cross over to the other side, it's just that we always seem to be on totally different pages. And even when I think we are once we sleep together it really crumbles...
At some point you can't keep saying they're the problem when you are the common denominator in the situations.
Even a friend of mine, he's stopped talking to me, he has issues anyways and in all honesty I kind of don't really know why we are friends when he's really rude. Coughing and spluttering down the phone, he will talk to me sometimes with such contempt in his voice when things aren't going his way.
When I started dating he started saying things and trying to advise me but his language literally was "I'm up for a good time!"
I wasn't interested in that with any of these guys.
And yes it gets results but not got longivety.
He's gained loads of weight and for months I've been telling him he needs to get it under control.
He is due a hospital treatment and consequently has started one, but its triggered his depression I presume because he pleasure/comfort eats.
So as you can imagine I just got this really nasty side to him as a consequence.
