The audacity

@th3r0n

Lmao, no. When women on average only orgasm 36% of the times they have sex, including still less than half of all MARRIED women, you cannot say that it is solely an issue of guys not caring. If it were, then women would never have to fake an orgasm to make their partner feel better.

Also, you cannot say that it is “easy” in even half of all instances, when 75% of women never reach orgasm from penetration alone, and 10-15% have never orgasmed under any circumstances in their life.

Obviously we can all agree that the most well equipped person to give a woman an orgasm is herself; she knows her own body like no one else, and can respond immediately to her own changing needs without having to communicate them.

You cannot claim that it is “easy” to make women orgasm when many women take 30, 40, 60+ minutes to come from masturbation. Toy or no toy.

Now to top it off with some superfluous but helpful anecdotal evidence, I add my own experience. Between actual boyfriends and one-night-stands, on average I have come closer to orgasming from sex with random hookups than I have from partners who demonstrably loved and cared about me. My first boyfriend was actually very insecure about the fact that he couldn’t make me orgasm, and would “work overtime,” so to speak, in hopes that I would. My current boyfriend, while he doesn’t let it affect his self esteem, frequently bugs me to go see a doctor about my sexual dysfunction, because he wants me to enjoy it too.

Fin.

@Zeuro sounds like you have deep psychological issues or a physical ailment

I’ve managed to make women orgasm just teasing them over the phone when they didn’t touch themselves, one of which was sitting next to her sister and utterly embarrassed (I thought it was hilarious)

Female orgasm isn’t as much physical as it emotional and mental

If a man can get a woman to feel comfortable, excited, desired, and make her feel desire, and tease her with words and get her to where she is overcome by desire and thinking of nothing else, make her feel loved, and make her single focus on desire, the physical touch needed to induce orgasm is utterly simple and minimal, a simple rubbing of the clitoris is sufficient

Of course if you just stick it in she won’t orgasm, and a lot of guys do that

I’ll never be having sex again until I marry, but the last woman I was engaged to had over 100 orgasms over the course of 10 hours the first time we were together, and that story never changed after breaking up or even her telling me her new guy was even bigger

I surely never heard her say that someone made her feel better

It’s easy, if you know how to tease and gain intimacy

@th3r0n for me it is most definitely physical. Specifically it’s an issue of pelvic floor strength. I have hardly any. Is also why I piss my pants so Damn often

@Zeuro that’s highly unfortunate

Most of the time with women who don’t have health issues it’s just guys being selfish

Sorry to hear of your health issues