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Would you take care of your significant other's child if its not your child?

Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F
Yes,if I love daddy and he has a child they are a package deal. And e landing this thought, that means child support comes before dates. It means I expect him to put that child before me because the child didn't ask to be part of our adult scenario but I'm there by choice. Kids come first.
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^^ this.
Picklebobble · 56-60, M
Yes. Like they were my own !
Whatever you feel about your partners ex, their children deserve the best.
It is a nightmare dealing with other people's children.
Whatever you do will always be wrong in somebody's eyes !
But growing up is hard ! We all remember that, right ?
But if you can see past all the adult b/s that goes with partners with children, and just bear their needs in mind ahead of anything else, it can and should be thought of as worthwhile.
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Very nicely said
Of course. If I didn't that would make her pretty insignificant wouldn't it?
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it seems like it'd be part of the package deal you should know about going in.
Pleasingyou81 · 46-50, M
Any man that says no shouldn't be with a woman with a child. Same goes for women being they are supposed to be the motherly ones. The child has no choice in his/her life at this point. Love should and needs to be shown always. If you don't love the kid how can you love the parent?
Well said.
hunkalove · 61-69, M
I've never been married and I don't have any kids. I wouldn't go near a woman with children. Not my problem.
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Yes as a human I think that children should be taken care of.
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Pleasingyou81 · 46-50, M
No wonder there are so many kids without Dad's. Men are afraid of loving someone that isn't there's or doesn't put out.
adshaw · 36-40, M
Yes, as long as I can be a proper parent and not just an ATM.
bamaboylick · 61-69, M
Yes, and have
Thanos · 31-35, M
Virgo79 · 61-69, M
It would depend on the situation of the child. If the mother of the child is capable then I'm not trying to raise someone else's kid.
Absolutely.

If I can't love his child then I can't love him.

One and the same.

To a point.
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
As long as it's not a bratt I would.
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only if i love her
hunkalove · 61-69, M
JaggedLittlePill · 46-50, F
You are block worthy...simply because you are a seriously bitter old man
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