question for ladies - being mean to men
when you are mean to men do you enjoy it more than if and when you are mean to members of your own gender?
46-50, M
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WhateverWorks · 36-40
memyselfandyou · 46-50, M
@WhateverWorks then you carry that resent and hurt to other men who you may meet?
WhateverWorks · 36-40
No, I was thinking about squabbles that have come up during dating the individuals. I don’t run around being mean to people who haven’t done anything to me lol Heck, I don’t like being mean to people who have done things to me @memyselfandyou
memyselfandyou · 46-50, M
@WhateverWorks i understand being mean is often not anyones intention. But it seems like some seem to really get a kick out of humiliating members of the opposite gender.
WhateverWorks · 36-40
That kind of behavior usually stems from some sort of traumatic thing happening in their past, so they lash out @memyselfandyou
memyselfandyou · 46-50, M
@WhateverWorks which then feels cathartic, but leaves the person on the receiving end confused at best
WhateverWorks · 36-40
In most cases I don’t even think they realize they’re doing it. It’s like most abuser stories. They tend to feel justified in intentionally hurting people. They usually rationalize that the person brought it upon themselves in some way. @memyselfandyou
memyselfandyou · 46-50, M
@WhateverWorks yes and they really believe that. It's so sad.